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I So Had to Tell You First

Got your attention.

Good.

That’s what I wanted. Not to take up too much of your time. Since I am an ADD author and you’re beginning to wonder: What’s the point to today’s post, I’ll make it short …

as possible.

Here’s the deal:

I am working mom, who set many goals at the beginning of the year. I wanted to freshen up the blog, and before April hit, I thought I did a good job staying on my twice-a-week schedule.

While I have been lucky to meet my goal of publishing one story this year, I haven’t kept up with the schedule.

You say: Yeah, we noticed.

I say: Thank you.

Authors and writers love to set goals. We feel great when we meet them and wonder what goes wrong when we do not. Sometimes we want to block ourselves off from reality to write and meet those goals, but life comes in again like a goofy boss you want to hit. I’m thinking Office Space.

Yeah …

Life comes at you.

I a mom with a son who – as much as I love him – is the royal prince of my life. A job I love, which also takes away energy, and a wonderful husband. In addition everyday needs, my family and I dealt with a scare with mom’s health last month. We have been working together to set meal schedules and recipes, so she and Dad will eat healthier.

Time constrains all of us. We must make choices. As a writer close to completing several projects, I need time to edit and write.

I so wanted to tell you, the powerhouse readers, I am cutting my posts back to once a week on Sunday. I will continue to write about writing, books, pictures, family and cooking. I will still write and look forward to you reading!

By Rebecca T. Dickinson

Writing Goals in 2013

A writer begins with more than one goal.

Goals for a writer’s blog cover more than one territory. They could be, in the words of J.R.R. Tolkien‘s Lord Elrond, “scattered, divided, leaderless.”

Each writer’s personality, style and multiple goals are their own. It is up to us to pull those ideas together.

If you are ADD, like me, organization becomes a greater challenge.

When I began A Word or More almost one year ago, I knew I wanted to share knowledge about the literary and writing industry, books, my book, a little cooking, travel writing and photography.

That is a lot, but they are all experiences about which I know.

Writing goals in 2013:

  • I will write 1 post a week.

    Family, work and the writing demands of two books requires more time.

  • Share more photos.

    I am an amateur photographer. Every other week, I want to post one or two pictures.

  • Write Essays, Get Money

    “Rebecca, there is no money in writing.”

    I’ve been accepted to graduate school at Winthrop University for an MAT in English. School does not pay for itself. I will spend more time writing clear, concise; and hopefully, good essays for scholarships.

  • Complete 2 Books

    If you read A Word or More regularly, you know I am married to a book entitled Sons of the Edisto. I am also completing a nonfiction project, private by contract.

    Both manuscripts are in the editing stage. Little time is left for a working mother.

    I continue to share background stories: The Bannisters: A New Beginning.

  • “Dishes Take 5 Minutes”

    I left out a popcorn bowl and forgot to wash it. My parents and brother forgot to wash the dishes piled by the sink.

    “What’s the point?”

    My husband said, “Nothing, including Bible study—and I will upset you—writing, is more important than the five minutes it takes to clean the dishes.”

    I raised my eyebrows at him.

    Writing takes time and at certain points in the process there is nothing more important, to me, other than our son and being on time for work.

    Balancing time will be at the top of my goal list.

  • Get Published Again

    I set a personal goal in 2011 to be published in a creative publication once. I was published three times then and twice in 2012. Back then I was a stay-at-home mom, freelance writer and sometimes substitute teacher. Due to scheduling, not as many submissions will go out. The magic number 1 remains my goal.

  • Expand Knowledge of the Industry

    Sons of the Edisto has been a long term project. In that time, I set a goal to learn about the publishing industry, how to write a query and always look at agents and publishers’ tastes and backgrounds. I will continue with this goal. Perhaps by the end of the year I will have sent my first query letter for Sons of the Edisto.

  • Get Twittered

    Since beginning my writer’s account on Twitter, I am learning how to receive and share valuable information. In other words, “How will this help people.” Not “I’m in Myrtle Beach.”

  • Read

    I am slow reader due to time. I want to read more blogs. I want to read more books. I fall asleep with a book on my stomach.

    The goal remains the same.

    Time management will change.

By Rebecca T. Dickinson

More Articles about Writing, Goals and Doing it All:

Into Darkness – I Thought I Could Do It All

My Son

Giving the Publisher What They Want Dernit!

Start Your Year off Writer: Query Tips

Thank you to Ezines and Publishers in 2011 and 2012:

Blue Ridge Literary Prose, By The Drink, December 2012

Telling Our Stories Press, IMPACT, We Never Said Hello, 2012

paniK: Candid Stories of Life Altering Experiences Surrounding Pregnancy, Grass from the Grave, Help Inspire Others Project, 2011

The Copperfield Review, Out with the Old, 2011

Dew on the Kudzu, The Way Things Are, 2011


How Does Career Choice Affect Writers?

I am reading Carl Hiaasen’s Nature Girl.


I never doubt Hiaasen’s authenticity when it comes to creating over-the-top characters. In journalism, over-the-top is sometimes the norm. What led Hiaasen to become an author?

Since falling for his writing style—with which I share certain satirical values in my contemporary stories—I had decided to research the author. I discovered he is a longtime journalist for The Miami Herald. His column is said to express outspoken views. He wrote his first two books with another author, and Hiaasen also reminds me of Hemingway.

Hemingway, also a man of many words, worked as a journalist. Some of his work I appreciate, and some is as good. Again—at one time—I wondered: Must a person work in a writing-related career to become an author?

No doubt it helps.

Author Carl Hiaasen, author of Nature Girl.

Ernest Hemingway

An editor once told me there is a difference between a journalist and a writer. Another editor told me journalism students cannot write with the same creativity as a writer. (Not my belief.) A publisher complimented me on the fact that I had little trouble coming up with great leads for stories, which was a challenge for many young journalists.

After I left full-time journalism, I did—and still do—freelance work. I thought it was beneficial to become a copy writer or something in the publishing industry.

But, I am not journalist or someone who belongs in front of a computer all day.

And, I’m not Hemingway or Hiaasen.

For two years, I dressed in costume as a reporter. I told myself it would support the (creative) writing. It was a good lie until the day I stopped writing.

Something stirred in my gut. I fought it because I had the messed up notion in my mind that if I became a teacher, I would already be viewed as the writer who failed.

It was a good try,” I thought someone would say. “Let’s pack up the pens and try something that brings in a real paycheck.”

How many teachers have gone on to become great writers? I don’t know.

In my life, writing and education walked hand-in-hand. One guided the other.

Older children and teenagers are main characters in my stories and novel.

I am still learning to build writing and editing time into my new schedule, but I find myself happier and, hopefully, a better writer.

Do you believe your profession can work with your writing?

What do you do to make time for writing?

By Rebecca T. Dickinson

When Deals Go Bad

Sometimes a deal goes bad.

Maybe more deals than you want.

 You’re an artist and writer. You dedicate time to your craft.

 I am a writer. I dedicate time to perfect my craft, but challenges arise when you choose to become a freelance writer. There are many great freelance writers. I’ve met them. Some have more luck than others.

 As writers, our job is also to understand the business side of writing. Even if you are not a freelance writer and want to publish a book, information about literary agents, publishing, self-publishing and business practices are good tools to keep in your case.

The problem is even with knowledge a deal sometimes goes bad whether you’re trying to sell a portrait, negotiate a contract, or sell an article.

Know Your Worth

When I switched from full-time journalism to education and freelance writing, I entered semi-blindsided.

Guess what! It is not enough to want to become published. Potential customers will take advantage of that desire. 

I know. I wanted it, too.

I have never been comfortable with talking about money, but when it comes to writing, I know I am worth more than giving the work away for free.

You must decide what you are worth.

Advice on Books

You’re offered a deal to write, organize, or edit someone’s book. That’s great news.

Sometimes you will find the I will pay you a cut after the book is publish.

Okay, this is when your business smarts must come into play. Don’t do it.

I see you now, fellow writer, with those glimmering eyes full of hope. You believe with your touch, the book has a shot. I’ll throw you a bigger bone. You are the best at writing query letters and a synopsis for an agent or publisher. You just know you’ll find an agent.

Don’t do it.

First negotiate a proper contract that will stand up in court because your work is worth something. Name your price. It is okay to negotiate from a price you are comfortable with. Remember you are going to spend hours—job kind of hours—writing, doing research and editing.


I know. I have made those mistakes. The realization you’re not going to be paid for an indefinite amount of time is like an anvil falling on your head.

Good writers should be paid.

Freelance

I have had wonderful opportunities in the last year. I have also struggled against hard heads.

When it comes to freelance, know your skills and hone them.

When you spend a few hours doing research at a computer, make sure you are going to be paid for them.

I wrote an in-depth AP-style article for a new magazine publisher. The article was going to pay well. In fact, I had already set aside the money in my head for fall clothes and shoes for my son.

Whoops.

The guy wanted fluff. Not market research and quotes from an expert.

How was I treated?

First it took more than one month to get a response from him after we’d negotiated the deal. He pushed me off until he told me the article was not what he wanted after all without specifics. When I offered to rewrite the article, there was no response.

A professional “no thanks” goes a long way.

Good Manners

A deal will go bad. Step away from it.

Do so with grace.

But, I want to bash the guy’s head in. Do you know how many hours I spent researching, interviewing, writing and then editing?

Yes, I know.

Write your last emails to the client or person with grace. Stand firm, but still wish them the best.

You’ll find you stand on higher ground.

By Rebecca T. Dickinson

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